Life Skills Series 1: Taking Control of Yourself

 Life is a puzzle but only if you find your way around the maze will you see achievements and gain success.

In all you do try to be outstanding and come out on top, only then will you gain acceptance from all, Regardless of who you are and where you come from.

Getting control of yourself is the first step to succeeding. They Say Stagnation is the worst enemy of Humans and Life and as Albert Einstein put it correctly "Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results is insanity". 

The Real Rules of Time and Money

 The desire for Time, money and their acquisition is one universal desire that is as popular as the word air or oxygen in the world today.

Money as a medium of exchange holds much power that sometimes it looks like it can buy wisdom. But rather it is the other way round. It is applied wisdom that brings money.

If wisdom rules the land then there will be plenty for the people but if money rules the land there the people will suffer from lack, scarcity and high prices of items they desire because the lust and quest for attainment of money and high status will be plenty”

T – Think    I – Invest     M – Maximize     E – Expand

Time is Life’s best friend not money. But second to time is money because with time you can afford money but with money you cannot afford time. The challenge for many in life is adequate management and utilization of time.

THE ROAD TO ALL WEALTH AND AMAZING HEALTH

When you sow a firm and quality character mixed with good principles and hard work, you reap a Destiny. Do the work and let GOD do the rewarding.  Developing yourself with an entire Faith and positive mindset is what will uplift you to reach a point where you can see the true meaning of life. Thus the outcome of tomorrow depends on what we do in the present and each passing day. 

We all grow overtime and only through time can we create the reality we desire because we have the power to in our minds, hands and everyday living if we focus on positive and prosperous growth.

BUILDING AN EVERLASTING FAITH

Faith is a Royal Visitor which enters only the Mind that has been properly prepared for it. The Mind that had been set in order through self-discipline.

There will be many who will discourage you and tell you that your dreams cannot be achieved either "it is too big" or "the world today does not work the way you think". Regardless of all Remember that there is no shortage of resources on earth but rather shortage of people not thinking big enough. Don't allow your teachers, friends, family, colleagues work on you or discourage you negatively towards your vision. Be in faith and do what is right always, Be in charge of Your Destiny and faith it till you make it.

The elements that will enable you build an everlasting faith includes:  Loyalty, Passion, Commitment, Persistence and Thankfulness.

*LOYALTY: 

To see the end of anything you must be loyal to it.

Success and faith requires loyalty because only when you stick to something long enough doing what is right then can you understand how to get value from it. Loyalty allows you to commit yourself to something. 

Choose  where and who you give your loyalty to, because it counts for everything towards Success and building the right faith.

*PASSION:

 Translating your vision or dreams and faith into reality with an action plan requires continuous action everyday that will move you towards your dreams. You can only be energized to do some thing with endurance regardless of what it is if you love it and enjoy working on it. 

Passion is what you love doing. No matter how big your dreams are, you can get there if you have a passion and can develop it to bring value to you and those around you.

Your passion can develop overtime, when you apply a strong enthusiastic devotion to a vision, goal, idea or course. Your passion brings out your heart's true desires.

 It is impossible to be very good at something if you are not passionate about it. 

Know you passion, keep developing it and working it till you wonder yourself because  in truth Yes You can create great value with just your passion.

*COMMITMENT: 

This is a trait of steadfast and sincere fixity of purpose. It is having a clear focus on what you desire. It is also the act binding yourself intellectually and emotionally to a definite purpose or course of action.

To live a truly faith filled and successful life, you need to first;  a dream or passion and through loyalty, commit to it giving your all and best. That's how commitment works. Nothing happens unless with a vision and a loyal follower. 

To make your dreams come true and build a faith that can withstand anything you have to believe in your vision with a strong sense of loyalty, passion and a mindset ready to commit till you see the end result of what you seek.

You can stay committed  by putting in the efforts and work on a daily basis that will move you closer to your results everyday.

Commitment requires discipline and actions and it requires you to make daily affirmations and take actions that are in line with your intentions and wishes so as to enable you translate them into reality.

Commitment only works when you constantly push and work towards something that can be of benefit.

*Thankfulness: 

This activates a feeling of joy and content which ignites Grace which is tagged as “double honour and blessings”. Thankfulness is a virtue and a dynamic voice which activates the law of attraction and the grateful mindset.

This is so because because it provides you with a positive emotion of appreciation involving a feeling of openness and abundance bringing  a countenance of joy that can extend to aid in the quest of success.

Know this for a fact that GOD and nature loves a grateful and happy heart. 

You can learn to acquire this attitude by improving your focus and fine tuning your mind to create space to always be thankful for the little things in life and the process you have to follow to make it in life regardless of what the circumstances of life may be or posed at a given time.

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THE SIMPLE WISDOM OF LIFE

The wisdom of life portrays the sign posts and the right path to follow in aiming for success and life of prosperity. Without a Map you can’t find the treasure you desire. Success and a healthy lifestyle requires adequate planning and tools necessary to see you through as you move towards life.

HOW TO FIND YOUR BALANCE IN LIFE

I discovered Fear was worthless and it was sabotage and this was not meant for everyone but we all got involved because they (The World) still colonized us. Now it was not physical but monetary economic slavery as in times of difficulty you needed a bailout and this bailout was only owned by the masters who had it more”.

HOW TO FREE YOUR MIND FROM NEGATIVITY

In short this article covers the basics of adapting during a difficult time for humanity, now and in the future. You can consistently develop yourself and work on elevating your life by learning how to live, how to focus, how to get up early, how to master your emotions and harness your inner power which in turn will help free your mind from Negativity and allow you focus on productivity and positive emotions.

The Smart Rule: "Don’t be in a haste, cool down, trust the process, learn and be patient enough to see your work become a valuable asset in empowering your life".

Life is all about your appetite and desires because they form a great portion of your daily thoughts. In life everything is meant to grow over time regardless of what it is. (For example: Money, Love, Human beings, Ideas, Life and Wealth). Hence overtime you can either appreciate in value or decrease in value depending on how you live.

To live a life worth remembering is the desire of all with prosperity in health and wealth. The truth about this is  that all can have such a life if they apply the right mindset and method to survival in life.

The first step to knowing how to live is “controlling your appetite”.  You have to grow an appetite that can be satisfied by the work of your hands and mind. Your appetite in life has to be that of satisfaction. You have to be satisfied with what you have either to start with or to develop with. This mindset will not only allow you to have a spirit of wisdom but it will open your mind to ideas that can be used in growing whatever you have at hand or seek in the future giving you larger fulfillments because you will have an open mind that can use the resources available at hand to achieve that which is desired in abundant quantity.

 A Wiseman once said that "it is not the lack of resources but the lack of resourcefulness that kills many dreams". so you can start with whatsoever you have, wherever you are and whenever you decide to. Don’t mistake being comfortable and being satisfied with what you have. Being comfortable with what you have makes you relaxed but being satisfied makes you have a spirit of gratitude and foresight open to blessings because you have not a relaxed spirit but a content one that recognizes what uniqueness and originality  of one’s self in life means.

So, to truly live well you must mold your thoughts and allow them shape your reality. Look at yourself as an artist with the capacity to paint any picture they desire.

How to Free Your Mind and Focus

They say, if you pay attention for so long on something you will either become a master or slave to that thing. The choice is always in our hands.

You can only capture what you focus on. Your mind can only attract that which you feed it. To develop the right focus, you need to develop an intense attention towards your desires and consistently think about their fulfillment because focus grows overtime through clarity of vision and thoughts, precision and alignment.

To attract what you desire in life, you have to start putting your thoughts and focus on that.

Controlling Your Emotions

Your emotions are at the core of your thoughts because it is the emotional triggers we get that leads to the formation of thoughts, the triggers we get from events occurring around or away from us, conversations, reactions and feelings towards something affects us a lot. Say for example you receive some good news about a promotion at work or a cash gift from one of your favorite uncle,  unconsciously after receiving such news you might tend to feel a rush of joy and happy thoughts in your mind almost immediately and then as time goes on your mind begins to dwell on how you will utilize your new gift in one way or the other.  This cycle of thoughts can go on and on depending on the attention you give to it.

And so this same scenario of thoughts formation and emotional trigger can be applied when we get sad news as well. 

At the back of our emotional and thoughts trigger is the ability to determine how we react. You have control over your reaction towards any series of events you encounter in life and if you grasp the meaning of this truth that "as your mind thinks so you become" then you can apply the conscious or deliberate strategy of "constantly choosing how to react to your thoughts, emotions and life events". You can develop the habit of positive reaction to anything by allowing your mind to remind you always that you are in charge of your mind. 

This you can start and master through a 7-days "Positive thought reminder routine" where by you tell yourself from Day 1 of the routine that you will remind yourself everyday for 7-days that you are in charge of your thoughts and your mind works in all aspects to aid you.

Repetition is the father of learning and for you to perfect anything you must practice to perfect yourself in it, And so for controlling your mind you must practice positive thinking always.

SIMPLE LIFE SKILLS

Life is a puzzle but only if you find your way around the maze will you see the achievements of moving forward and becoming truly successful.

In all you do, try to be outstanding and come out on top. Only then will you gain acceptance from all, Regardless of who you are.

Getting control of yourself is the first step to succeeding. They Say Stagnation is the worst enemy of Humans and Life

There is nothing that is practical without practice, application and knowledge backed with a good and solid theory. The theory of originality speaks volumes as it is seen that the good book specifies that “as a person thinks so they become”. Your strength to become outstanding will only come to reality if you accept you are unique in your own way and avoid being a copy-cat.

Cooperating with your inner self and the true wisdom of GOD irrespective of your religion or belief will lead you to success.

Not all are born equal but all do have equal opportunity of being great as a result of the capacity to think. GOD complements our existence in the sense that we have the capacity from birth to develop MIND POWER and WILL POWER which can turn any situation to the the way we desire it if we apply it right.

Every law that governs the universe operates within certain boundaries and areas, for example the law of gravity which is applied in more than one aspect of our lives in different ways but basically using the same principle of gravity.

The cycle of Life skills begins with you developing your will power through self-discipline and adapting your principles everyday and taking  the corresponding action to attain your goals.

So we can apply this simple life skill of originality by maintaining a standard with core principles of faith, hard work, love, loyalty and respect to achieve what we desire. If we allow these principles guide us daily in our operations with LIFE and SUCCESS then we will be sure of a guaranteed victory in the end because this principles have be proven beyond reasonable doubt to yield only that which bring positive growth and development.

Follow excellence and success will chase you pants down ~~ 3 idiots

Follow your passions and stay true to your dreams by creating value every day and success will pursue you behind.

HOW TO CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS: "The Habit of Willpower"

You can become whoever you want to be if you first realize that "Practise makes perfect and patience is a great tool that sharpens your will power to become a master in any field you find yourself"



In life everything is meant to grow over time regardless of whatever it is. 

To truly live you have to mould your thoughts and then allow them shape your reality. Look at yourself as an  artist in life and you have the capacity to paint whatever picture you desire to through your thoughts. It's this simple if you believe it is and do the needful to see you through.

How to Master Your Emotions

You can't capture what you don't focus on. Your mind can only attract what you feed it consistently over time. To develop control over your emotions you must grow and cultivate your focus through an intense attention towards what you desire in life.

Focus grows overtime through positioning, clarity of purpose, steadfastness, precision and the right alignment with your Mind. Whatever you focus on is what you will attract.

Your emotions are at the core of building your thoughts because it is the emotional triggers we get that leads to the formation of different thoughts and reactions.

Your will power has to grow with self discipline backed with Principles and Actions to achieve your goal always.

Self discipline has a bigger effect on our all round performance in Life more than intellectual talent.

You have to push yourself to reach a point where your will power becomes a habit and it will begin to work for you in an automatic fashion over time.

Controlling your emotions and developing the habit for success requires cultivating an environment that justifies what you seek. That is; your associations, routine, friends, activities, thoughts and lifestyle..is it one that is moving you closer to your goal or it is one drifting you away from it..

You have to balance this and identify the right environment that inspires you to be active and productive so u can begin continuous growth.

You can teach yourself how to regulate your emotions as well as your self discipline towards success.

Knowing how to remain focused and disciplined in life leads to success.

Hence; if you do something today, you can do it tomorrow with a better push and strength and so your will power will grow overtime getting better and better with each day of practise and work that passes..Never forget we grow with time!

HOW TO TAKE CALCULATED RISK

Risk is faith at work if we apply it right. The right risks can elevate you from nothing to greatness.

HOW TO ATTRACT LUCK

Everyone desires to be lucky or let me say fortunate in life as it is no longer news today that we all strive to achieve stability in life with a bit of peace of mind. While on the quest for success or satisfaction of our base desires in life, we all seek for luck, a breakthrough, miracle or opportunity as the case may be. Is it possible to attract luck and always be fortunate?

GROWING AN APPETITE FOR SATISFACTION AS THE WORLD TURNS

The world did compromise the standard of what is right and even though many wouldn’t admit it, we all have played a role in this.

HOW TO CREATE YOUR SUCCESS STORY

To succeed and create your success story you have to Choose the positive, master your attitude, principles and actions towards Life and To pursue any dream,  you have to build the will power and strength promising yourself to never give up till you achieve success as that’s the only way you can confront life with a fearless approach and succeed.

"When you pray for rain, you have to be ready to deal with the mud also"  This principle and quote applies to success, when you pray for it, be ready to deal with the challenges and  joy rides  along the way as they will come but stay calm and alert knowing you can overcome all. Train your mind to focus on what you truly desire alone and you will attract your heart desires.

Every human being is born with greatness within them and all are capable of success if only they will work towards their goals consistently planting seeds of determination, persistence, patience, faith, positive attitude and actions while maintaining a consistent attitude of positive feelings and thoughts which allows the seeds of belief and faith you plant to grow. 

The Riches of Life

A Life Series - Edited by Fr. Raji Emmanuel Ada

Life isn’t always what it appears to be but life can be what we make it to become. Remember to become limitless you have to take steps in silence having no hesitation but moving entirely with a strategic mindset of having your goal in mind and focus on your dream with no emotions attached until it is achieved. 

We can actually do a lot if we shift our focus and attention to what we want that can become of value and in the end beneficial to us in the near future, it’s all about the ‘focus’ and ‘attention’ we pay towards something that brings out results.

Becoming a Person of Content

In 1996, Bill Gates Said in an interview that "Content is King".

On  the search for Quality and finding what attracts success and what makes a Man standout,  I discovered that real people don’t fall for just looks and what you have but for what is within because Content is King.The Quality Man is a Man that Chases Excellence and Creating Value-The Quality Man thoughts - “Practicing Good over evil can Multiply your Strength, Double your wealth and Triple Your Self-Confidence”.